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How (And When) to Stop Caring What People Think About You

February 24, 2026 By Drew Shepherd Leave a Comment

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I opened my email after dinner yesterday and saw the following message: “[Blank] you!” I couldn’t contain my laughter afterwards. Seeing that message would have hurt me 15 years ago, but I’ve since learned how to stop caring what people think. Apparently, this is a highly desirable and uncommon skill, so I’ll show you … [Read more...]

Marathon Mentality 2: There’s No “We” in Running

January 12, 2026 By Drew Shepherd Leave a Comment

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Running is a solo sport. Sure, you have relays, run clubs, and track teams, but every honest runner will admit that only one person is responsible for their performance. No one can run your leg of the race, no one can substitute their times for you, and no one can invest hours upon hours into your training. Those … [Read more...]

Beware of Borderline Personality Disorder (A Must-Read for Men Everywhere)

July 20, 2025 By Drew Shepherd 29 Comments

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[Note: This post is a warning about an undiagnosed case of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and the real danger it can cause in a relationship. It is not intended to spread hate towards people with the illness. If you or a loved one have been diagnosed with BPD and are aware of the challenges it presents, I will … [Read more...]

Why Johnny Depp’s Victory Was a Win for Me and Every Other Man Attacked by an Abusive Woman 

June 8, 2022 By Drew Shepherd 3 Comments

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“This chick has BPD.” It only took 15 minutes of watching Amber Heard’s testimony for me to see she had a personality disorder. I had no idea the trial between Heard and Johnny Depp would be livestreamed, so I didn’t tune in to the popular case until Heard’s team began their defense. Once I heard Amber speak, however, I … [Read more...]

A 2021 HFE Update and 5 of My Favorite Articles From 2020

January 19, 2021 By Drew Shepherd Leave a Comment

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Yes, I’m alive. I’m exhausted, but I’m still alive. 2020 did a number on me, man. And 2020 part 2 isn’t being much kinder. But anyway, let me stop with the negativity. I wrote this to give an update, not to complain. First, I apologize for the lack of content lately. My production was in a good spot early last year, … [Read more...]

Do Soulmates Exist? And What Does the Bible Say About Soulmates?

August 19, 2020 By Drew Shepherd 17 Comments

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I recently got a question from a fellow Christian about soulmates. Despite reading my warnings about the danger of soulmate thinking, he still believed it, and it was mostly because of church teaching. Sure, it’s easy to reject secular beliefs, but with the way people over-spiritualize the Bible, I understand why he … [Read more...]

202 Bits of Wisdom I Would Share With My Younger Self

January 13, 2020 By Drew Shepherd 4 Comments

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Happy New Year! I know I’m a little late on that, but hey, better late than never. Anyway, 2020 is the start of a new decade, and I thought I’d use this opportunity to round up some lessons I learned in the last one. I couldn’t quite make it to 2,020 though, so I knocked off the last zero for a total of 202 instead. All … [Read more...]

A Light in the Dark: Why You Need a Heart for the Underground to Do Great Things (Going Great #6)

December 22, 2019 By Drew Shepherd 3 Comments

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“How come you always get more views than me?”  I was playing Call of Duty when that question came over Xbox Live. This was back in the good ol’ summer days: I had no work and no school, so my friends and I spent all day grinding CoD and making vids for YouTube. But anyway, I hesitated to answer that question. It came … [Read more...]

The Ego-less Servant: How to Provide Irresistible Value with None of the Headache (Going Great #4)

December 4, 2019 By Drew Shepherd Leave a Comment

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I hate pride. There aren’t many things that bother me in life, but when people delude themselves into thinking they’re better than another human, it takes all the power within me to not snap. I’m not sure why this upsets me as much as it does. Maybe it’s because I’ve stood on the opposite side too many times. Maybe it’s … [Read more...]

Eyes Fit for a King: 3 Steps to Avoid Pornography So You Can Do Great Things (Going Great #3)

November 27, 2019 By Drew Shepherd 2 Comments

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Sexual discipline. I covered the topic briefly in my last post, but it’s so important that I need to address its biggest threat: Pornography is a temptation that many men (and women) know all too well. Besides being immoral, porn threatens your sexual discipline, which in turn can ruin your focus and prevent you from … [Read more...]

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